It's being reported by The Chicago Sun-Times that Chris Brown and Rihanna are at odds again regarding their memories of the night of February 8th.
It looks more and more unlikely ''any permanent reconciliation will happen,'' a friend of Rihanna's said Sunday.
While Brown's attorneys claim there never was a book deal or plans to hit the talk show circuit to discuss abuse issues -- despite other Brown insiders' claims to the contrary -- it seems the two music superstars' current squabbles are stemming from their individual memories of the infamous altercation in Brown's car the night of Feb. 8.
Rihanna is said to be furious Brown is putting out the tale she started it -- by striking him first, after discovering a text message from another woman on his cell phone. Some legal experts are saying, if that's the case, the Los Angeles authorities' case against Brown could be weakened.
Let's hope Rihanna comes to her senses and backs off reconciling. Like Oprah said, "If he hits you once, he WILL hit you again."
Monday, March 9, 2009
Chris & Rihanna Hit A Snag?
Posted by Unknown at 8:09 AM
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If she started it and hit him first...I think maybe some people should re-think the way they talked to me. Apologies accepted here.
~Hillary
You're kidding, right? It doesn't matter one bit if she hit him first. He nearly KILLED her.
She obviously doesn't care, so why do you? She got back together with him right?
A few people were mad that I insinuated that she may have provoked the fight by hitting him first...which it sounds like she may have. So he didn't just haul off and beat the shit out of her for no reason like you all said.
~Hillary
tell me Hillary, What is a good reason to get the shit beat out of you? I cannot believe you would even think that it is okay to beat someone for any reason at all. Seriously?!?
Cassandra
Hillary we did not get mad that you thought maybe she hit him first. We said we didn't care if she hit him first, that there was NO reason for him to take it that far. We said there was never an excuse for abuse like that. He even left her there and ran like a little coward!
I just think that if you hit someone first, you should expect to get hit back.
Would you slap or hit your man everytime he pissed you off? I wouldn't and I don't. I just don't understand women who do that or think thats okay.
From what I am reading it sounds like she has a bad temper too. They are both wrong in this situation. I just can't take a side.
~Hillary
So let's say she slugged him....yeah, I guess you're right. She totally deserved to be beaten to the point where her mouth filled with blood and he was choking her to the point where she nearly passed out. I see what you mean....she totally asked for it!
Sorry, Hillary but I'm never going to agree with you.
Thats okay, I am not asking you to. Everyone is intitled to their own thoughts and opinions. I just don't judge you for yours :o)
~Hillary
Yeah, but I can delete yours! ;-)
Funny how people's opinion turns people that have been computer buddies against each other like that. It's just too much!! I thought everyone here were friends, does anyone know Chris and Rihanna personally?
I agree that she was wrong in hitting him if she did, but when do two wrongs make a right? In that light I might have cut him a little slack had I not seen the pics. But he didn't just hit her back and stop at one punch, he beat the shit out of her. He could have easily killed her. If he was choking her out, he may have come close.
IMO, getting slugged does not justify attempted murder. It's akin to the short skirt argument where folks insist it was a woman's fault she was raped because she was wearing provocative clothing.
Say instead of Rhianna, it was a random girl who came up and slapped him. Would his response in beating the everloving shit out of her still be justified? Or would a call to the authorities have been more appropriate? It's called self control. When you cannot control yourself and hurt others in the process, then you have to pay for the consequences.
Fonda
It's not ok to hit period, but I can't imagine saying he was justified in his response. She hit him, he tried to kill her. Seems totally justified to me.
Of course I don't know either of them personally, I would be upset with a friend who was saying the things Hillary was if it was ANY woman or man. Someone I know or not. Doesn't mean I can't be friends with them but sometimes differing opinions do change how you feel towards another person.
Atleast I can leave a name too, not be annonymous.
Sorry not good at the blog thing MY NAME IS ERIN
Yeah, Erin if you ever have a different opinion from mine, I will call you out and then cut you off. Don't you even dare.
~Hillary
Does no one understand the meaning of the winky sign?
As much as I'd like to, I don't delete anyone's comments unless it's pornographic or disgustingly inappropriate.
Hillary, the opinion that someone deserves a beating because they started a fight is offensive. I really cannot understand how anyone can think that is okay. Knowing you think that way does change how I think of you.
Abuse is never okay.
Cassandra
Why do those that defend Chris Brown always question everyone else if they personally know Chris or Rihanna? Do you? Nope but you're quick to blame it all on someone you don't know either.
No one cut you off Hillary. You haven't been to the BUB in a month. No one has stopped you. We've all had differene of opinions about lots of things in the past and are friends.
Dang computer. I wasn't done typing.
But certain topics will make you rethink people. Thinking abuse is ok is definitely one of those things. You can't set conditions and rules on abuse.
Hillary no one cut you off and you know it. We just didn't beg you to stay when you threatened. There is a difference.
And this has been another episode of "Days of Our Mommy Board."
"As the Internet Churns?"
"The Young & The Opinionated?"
All I know is if someone hits me...Im goin for it ALL THE WAY. You play...you pay, and thats just the way it is. He tried to push her out of the car and she wouldnt get out...did she think they were going to continue with a tea party?
"He tried to push her out of the car and she wouldnt get out..."
Yeah, that's reason to get your ass beat. Seriously?! What the fuck?
Almost sounds like the words of someone who likes to abuse other people.
What do you expect to happen when you can obviously see the situation is escalating. If you have the option to GET THE FAWK OUT OF THE CAR or stay...hmmm lemme think, I think I'd be smart enough to get the fuck out! OH AND CALL 911 instead of my assistant!
The reports made it sound like he tried to shove her out but couldn't because she had her seatbelt on and that's when he started his beating. Maybe she didn't have a chance to get out.
About 3 weeks after my son was born in a sleep deprived rage I hit my husband. He called me a crazy bitch and walked away.
That's what a real man does.
Abusers take it as their cue to attack.
Nikki..I don't mean to laugh but that was funny...LMAO. Craig is the best husband on the planet, you can't use him in your comments. Thats not fair. :o)
~Hillary
"Abusers take it as their cue to attack."
I agree, and sadly, she took him back...so guess whats gonna happen AGAIN in the future. Cuz we all know it will
You think she knew he was going to try and kill her? He hadn't hit her yet at that point, let alone try to strangle her. It was after midnight in a city, would you want to get out of a car by yourself, a freaking international popstar, unless you knew what was about to happen, and none of us know for sure if she did or didn't know he was capable of that degree of violence. He's probably done a lot of threatening in the past but not actually gone through with his threats so she didn't take him seriously. I think he's probably hit her before but nothing like this.
I'm inclined to believe some of the new reports I've been reading that both of their camps are MAKING them do this as damage control.
You'd think I would be less naive, but I really want to believe that someone else is calling the shots.
Yeah BUB girls, I left on my own. I had to. A few people were really pissing me off and no one said a damn word to them. Thats when I knew it was done for me. I just felt like everyone's punching bag and thats not cool.
~Hillary
And since none of us were there, maybe she did try to get out of the car. It's reported she had her seat belt on but since none of us were there, maybe he yanked her back in.
Then delete your account if you feel it's not for you that people didn't defend you when you are defending abuse Hillary. It's not hard to delete your account.
Someone else is totally calling the shots. They were calling the shots since that first phone call to her manager.
Where were both of their security guards that night? Don't they follow them around 24/7. You think they would have been right behind them and saw the whole thing.
~Hillary
Oh yeah log back in so everyone call me the new luker..LMAO No thanks. Delete it yourself.
~Hillary
"Then delete your account if you feel it's not for you that people didn't defend you when you are defending abuse Hillary. It's not hard to delete your account."
Yeah Hillary! Delete you acct bitch! hahahahahahahah your opinions suck cuz they arent what I think so youre alll wrong!
hehehe thats so fawking hilarious!
Ok, so I've been reading through your many comments and it seems that most of the points have been covered multiple times. What I want to know is why is no one discussing the obvious fact that this is an issue that the Black community has been dealing with forever. Physical abuse rates are much higher in that community (as is lower socio economic levels, which correlates with domestic violence). As a result Chris' actions were more "understandable" to Blacks than to people from other backgrounds. It's a cultural difference. Has Bill Cosby made any comments about this issue yet?
Stephanie
It only takes a second to delete. Don't lurk. Log on. Delete. Good bye.
This has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with race...lets not even go there! how stupid to try and drag the race card into this! seriously. Whites, Asians, Mexicans, etc... have the same exact issues everyday. Who cares what Bill Cosby has to say about it
I think all of you people need to get off your friggin high horse and stop putting people down becasuse of the way they think. That does not make them bad people it just makes them opinionated.
As far as telling people to delete their accounts, seriously!! who the F do you think you are, Ms high and mighty helself. Get a friggin life.
OH AND BY THE WAY IT"S NOT ANONYMOUS IT'S ERIN!!!!!!
Does that make you happy, keeper of all blogs????
It only takes a second to delete. Don't lurk. Log on. Delete. Good bye.
Gee I wonder who wrote this? LMAO. Someone is still bitter....
~Hillary
Um... she said she wanted to delete her account but wouldn't because we would say she was logging on to lurk. Someone pointed out that it takes about 5 seconds to delete your account. No one told her to delete her until AFTER she asked to have it deleted by the admin of the board.
Let's leave Mommy Board drama off of here, please.
Oh and Erin, I'm not the keeper of ALL blogs, but I am the keeper of THIS blog. If I want to delete a comment, I will. When it gets into "eff you" and personal attacks, I will.
Hi, Steph again. If you don't think race is part of this you're either actively fooling yourself or just plain stupid. Bill Cosby is a noted critic of exactly the type of behavior Chris Brown is displaying. In a time when our president is rewriting the rules of Black America, Chris Brown apologists are turning the clock back 100 years.
Good Morning, oh great Keeper of All Blogs! It looks like I've missed all the action...boo!
It looks like everyone has covered all the bases...from pure stupidity to Ms High and Mighty...lol. Nikki you are awesome! I love you and your blog!!!
For those ill-informed commenters(idk, maybe just not very smart in general) who think that violence against women is in any way 'asked for' or 'deserved' should really think before they speak/type. Remember...KARMA can be a real bith!
Have a great day :-)
Char-
Wow. That's all. Well, almost all. Let me just add that ABUSE is never ok. And it is one thing for someone (male or female) to (say) slap another and get slapped back as a reaction - not ok but different ...It's a whole nuther thing for someone to get slapped then just go off the deep end and damn near kill someone. Black, white, yellow, or green ...it just is not acceptable.
Grow up and take your worthless two cents with you.
Nikki I don't think I was referring to you being the keeper of all blogs AT ALL...so I am sorry that you took it that way. But what I find is funny is that I make a comment about the keeper of all bloggs and then I am going to get deleted. Well just a question but have you read some of the other comments talking about people being stupid? You condone this kind of thing well then I guess that is just the way that it goes.
You do have a nice site and I like to read it every day. Too bad some of the people that are on here are just as ridiculus as I can be but no one seems to notice that part huh?
Erin - I didn't say I was going to delete you. There are so many "anon" posts going on here and I did delete one that told someone to f*ck off. I don't know if that was you or not. And it's that kind of post that I was referring to.
Obviously this is a heated topic and there's a history of differing opinions with some of us. I'm trying to let freedom of speech reign but profanity laden attacks against people aren't ok. I haven't gone thru each of these somments with a fine tooth comb, but the one I deleted pretty much just said "f u bitch" and so I deleted it.
comments, not somments.
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